MY SON WROTE THIS POST on Facebook ! I liked it so much I told him to send it to me and I would put it on my blog. 

Bob Marley“I would like to take a moment to express how FUCKED UP this picture is. “If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy!” Guys, if you know how to treat a woman with love and respect, you shouldn’t be chasing someone who won’t give you the time of day!2004_chasing_liberty_003

“If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing!” Not only is he giving women a way to justify being difficult to deal with, but he is also saying that, if you are not difficult, you are somehow a lesser woman.

“If you give up, you’re not worth it…” Love isn’t about climbing a fucking mountain to gain someone’s adoration.anywhere's better than here It’s about mutual respect, friendship, and shared effort.

“You just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.” THIS IS THE LAST STRAW, BOB!

This is ultimately telling us that it’s ok to let people who “love you”, hurt you. BeFunky_couple-fighting.jpgThat’s not love, my friends.

This bullshit Internet pic sends the message to those good guys who have been struggling in the “friendzone” for years that they aren’t worth the women they want to be with. When in truth, if you are being ignored, it’s probably the other way around. will smith allergic to bullshit

In addition, it sends the message to girls that it’s OK to treat men like shit!

Feminism is vital to the success of this nation, and the world, but feminism does not and should not be the same as being anti-male.

Good, honest, loyal, kind men still exist out there. Why should they turn into pushy assholes just to get you to notice them?”


THE CHALLENGER!!!! MICHAEL BUTLER-LUNDQUIST!jimmy_wang_yu_can_knock_down_four_men_with_a_straw_hat-71433If you like his stuff, check out his music!

Here’s his twitter account @michaelBL1


10 thoughts on “BOB MARLEY V.S. “THE CHALLENGER””

  1. “If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing!”

    It also screams of rape culture to me.

    If we’re saying no we mean it. Pestering us won’t make us change our minds.

    And ditto to everything you’ve said. I hate this kind of bullshit that’s spread around. It needs to stop.

      1. Very much so, you know you’re doing something right when they do something like that!!

        Well done on bringing up a boy with the right values 🙂

  2. I love this. What a better world we would live in if we took a more collaborative approach to coupling, rather than the outdated and demeaning (toward men and women) games that we so often play. We should always seek to build one another up, not conquer or dominate each other.

    Thanks for sharing your son’t point of view and his writing.

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