I realize that ever since Mike came back into my life, I’ve been trying to compartmentalize it and it sucks!!! It started after I discovered that, in spite of things he told me and his acceptance, the attention and kindnesses (which I’ve grown to love him for) he has no intention of ever being in a relationship with me or anyone else ever again. That’s when it began.

We still spoke everyday and I only fell more deeply in love, to no avail. I thought, (seeing as his one kiss kicked my libido into high gear) that I would get online and pass the time with other men, hoping I might meet someone to take mind off him. 

That didn’t work out so well. So I thought I could get my physical needs met elsewhere, but my heart was his, in spite of the fact that he didn’t ask for it.

In all this time, I also decided to give up my business.

Then I started blogging. ..

Published by: JB chants

I was contacted by OkCupid a month after signing up, telling me I was in the top 5% response rate and asking my secret. I was stunned. I was in my 50's! Beats me! It's not as though I posted racy photos or I was plagued by blinding beauty! However it served it's purpose,in terms of finding dates,but finding a mate? Not so much. Along the way, I had some pretty nutty encounters, some more lethal than others. While my blog started as a retelling of these amorous tales, it's morphed into a myriad of stories, including many from my time on the planet. They range from working with the amazing Henry Winkler, auditioning for Nadia Boulanger, an attempted assault by one of Al Capone's retired former henchmen, and offering a homeless man (who was also a convicted murderer) a place to stay for the night. While most of this is older material but I'm considering penning epilogues or postmortems from my post pandemic, post #metoo perspective, as well as sharing more. So many stories to tell! Thanks for stopping by! Cheers!

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